Malta shouldn’t be led by the Church – Moviment Iva
'We are a secular state. We shouldn’t be led by the Church. We are not like Iran' - Moviment Iva chairperson Deborah Schembri.
Speaking during a debate held in Paola on Sunday morning, Schembri was answering questions by The Times' journalist Mark Micallef.
Asked for her comment on the lobbying being done by the Church and its priests in the divorce debate, Schembri conceded that the church had every right to speak out on the issue.
“But we are a secular state. We shouldn’t be led by the church. We are not like Iran,” Schembri said. "Malta is a democratic country that runs on the principle that Christians have every right to look after their own spirituality, and we shouldn’t stop anyone wishing to divorce on religious grounds.”
She said that the introduction of divorce “does not mean that Catholics will be forced to use it" and that anyone wishing to follow the edicts of the Church in considering a marriage indissoluble "is free to do so".
“Nobody is forcing you to remarry, but everyone should have the equal right to make that choice,” she said.
The debate also touched upon the progress of the campaign, the contentious billboards that have been going up around the island belonging to both the pro and anti divorce lobbies, and the issue of a no-fault divorce.
She also pointed out that the Catechism of the Catholic Church which “specifically states that introducing divorce into the country to address issues of maintenance, inheritance, or children care, is not a sin.”
She also said that Catholic Tribunals abroad also request that couples obtain divorce before filing for an annulment. “Why is the Church going to the ends of the earth to prove that divorce is a sin when it is recognised by the Church abroad?” she asked.
She cited statements by Fr Rene Camilleri who said that it not only Christian values that are ethically and morally correct, but atheist values can also be so.
She conceded Micallef’s point that the Church has however consistently fought the introduction of divorce at every turn, such as when Italy was debating whether to introduce divorce.
She however pointed out that there are religious arguments that can be made in favour of the introduction of divorce, as there are individuals who are Catholic and devout while recognising the need for the introduction of divorce.
“But we are not trying to introduce the idea of a divorce that affects Church marriage, but one that affects civil marriage. The distinction is important,” she said. “In truth, the church won’t be affected at all by this divorce legislation.”
During the debate, Schembri answered questions by Mark Micallef about the campaign messages that the pro-divorce lobby is aiming at the public. She defended billboards such as those depicting instances of domestic violence, rebutting Micallef’s suggestions that “emotional arguments are easy to make.”
“Divorce is not a solution to marital breakdown. We are not saying that. We are emphasising the need for a second chance at happiness,” Schembri said. “The only way for marital breakdown is for the two spouses to reunite.”
Failing that, she said, the only way forward is to either end all ties, or else opt to remarry and have another chance at a happy family. She however questioned the idea that separated couples have no option but to cohabit if they wish to do the latter.
“If one opts to do it freely, it is fine. But to be forced to do so because no other option exists that is not right. Marriage is preferable and has more rights. The law shouldn’t stop people from assuming the responsibilities they wish to,” she said.
Asked about the pro-divorce lobby’s billboard that refers to children of separated couples as ‘bastard’ children (bghula), she admitted that this is a negative stereotype, but said that the billboard seeks to address the stigma, not reinforce it.
“Those who are not supporting divorce are supporting that situation as depicted on the billboard,” she said. “ Describing these children as children that are simply ‘outside marriage’ would be just sugar coating it.”
“What we want is for someone to look at that billboard and recognise this ‘forgotten’ reality,” Schembri said. “We say things that they are to change the situation and try to remove the label once and for all.”
She also emphasised that the option of remarriage will be open only to those who want to remarry. “The reality (of couples of might not wish to marry or remarry) will remain of course. People will not change their mind. But for those who want to leave that situation, the law is currently telling them that they cannot. This is unjust.”
She said that while she cannot force people to opt of out a situation, “one should however always provide them with the means to do so.” Referring to arguments that families that break down are but a small percentage of the country’s total marriages, she posited a healthcare analogy.
“That percentage of us who fall ill or become sick are a smaller percentage than those of us who are healthy. Does it mean that government should save itself the cost of opening and running a hospital where the minority can be cared for?”
She also expressed concern at the role the church is adopting the in ongoing debate. Referring to the email campaign that depicted her picture alongside text that suggested that she stands to financially profit from the introduction of divorce, Schembri said that priests involved in its circulation.
“This is a campaign of fear that seeks to intimidate others. If the argument against divorce was good enough, they wouldn’t resort to this scaremongering,” she said, dismissing the pressure that the pro-divorce lobby was coming under by way of calls and SMSes warning of the questionable morality of what they are doing.
Schembri dismissed the anti-divorce camp’s leading concern that the introduction of divorce would undermine the Maltese concept of the family. “Those who go into marriage and keep to its vow of indissolubility will not divorce simply because a law allows them to,” she said. “Those wishing to dedicate themselves to marriage as it should be, the idea of love and indissolubility, they can.”
We are not saying “either you have a happy marriage, or divorce. The matter is of having a choice should a marriage breakdown,” she said. “The option is there for marriages that already broke down, not for happy marriages that are stable.”
Micallef raised the point that the idea of devaluating marriage could change the approach of people headed into marriage and might allow them to approach marriage in a more liberal way, while also changking the value of a ‘no-way-out marriage’ for those already married.
Schembri pointed out that a ‘way out’ already exists – “separation.” She also contested the idea that divorce would somehow ‘devaluate’ marriage. “Those who are married and happy are married, those who are unhappy are also married, and those who are also separated are also married. What value does this marriage have?”
She questioned whether marriage would be valued according to simply a certificate, adding that the pro-divorce lobby is actually saying that marriage should be recognised and valued as a commitment, “not simply a certificate.”
“We agree that the best thing is to have a happy and united family,” she said. “But the question mark remains: if we do all we can do to ensure united marriage, would there still be marriages that break apart? The answer is yes, sadly, and we cannot ignore this.”
She said society should take this into account and cater for these families and spouses who might wish to remarry, not simply for those who do not. “Nobody will force anyone to remarry, those who do not want to remarry are free not to.”
Referring to statements made by former magistrate Philip Sciberras that the Church is opposing divorce to protect financial interests, Schembri said that “when something of his stature and experience says something, his position is not based on nothing. I don’t think he said what he said frivolously” She however refused to comment further to avoid “appearing to attack the church.”
She however dismissed points raised by Micallef that the Church actually loses money off the Ecclesiastic Tribunal (which presides over annulment proceedings). “It is not up to me to discuss the many ways the church makes profit. What appears and what does not appear is a very different story.”
“The Church has every right to say what it thinks. What annoys me is when it goes beyond a certain point,” she said. “I value what Sciberras said. I am sure he did not say it frivolously.”
She also hit out at the Government for not ensuring that those abroad who wish to vote are still not informed as to the flight arrangements – whether the cheap-flights scheme would be available, on what eligibility, and under what conditions.
“People need to be informed in good time, and not at the last second. Maltese citizens all have the right to vote, and this delay is leading to uncertainty at a time when people should be preparing to vote.”
The debate was characterised by individuals who also raised points of interest, or simply spoke of their own experience (both legal and marital) with regards to divorce and separation.